It would seem highly unlikely that anyone would be able to build a relationship from a cold call – but this is a fallacy. Every day businesses are finding their clients through cold calling – building profitable relationships that last for years.
Rapport building
Rapport building is the cornerstone of how to build a close and successful relationship over the telephone. By nature though you would think it impossible because you don’t know the person and you have very little time in order to establish a rapport, but with practice and know-how it can be done.
The secret of rapport building is for the recipient of a cold call to feel comfortable within the telephone conversation. For it to feel familiar enough not to notice the differences between you, like the feeling you have when you call a friend.
Think about calling a person you know – a close friend or relative. Now think about how often you use their name when in a telephone conversation. Surprisingly little. Once perhaps at the beginning of a conversation, but unlikely that it would be used again. Telephone sales people in general often regard it as good practice to generously sprinkle a persons name throughout a conversation – they feel it creates a friendly environment. What isn’t realised is that the opposite is true and it can sow mistrust and sound artificial.
What’s in a name?
Rapport can be broken very quickly by how people are addressed by name during a cold call. As well as overusing names, telemarketers often think that by using a person’s first name it will evoke a friendly environment – but how often would you greet someone who you have never been introduced to, met or spoken to before, by their first name? It would be disrespectful to do this, but some cold callers do it all the time.
First name use should strictly be by invitation only or if the person announces themselves by their first name on answering the call. Don’t assume familiarity until you have earned it.
The cold caller – first name only or both names?
Rapport is all about building trust between the caller and the recipient of the call. By using both names, a cold caller is showing transparency as to who they are. Subliminally this says ‘I have nothing to hide’ and helps to build both trust and rapport right from the first seconds of the call.
Helping to keep rapport going
To develop and stay in rapport the cold caller needs to adapt to the tempo of the other person. Speaking too quickly will result in the recipient of the call feeling that the cold caller is too aggressive or too pushy. Speaking too slowly will irritate the recipient – the trick is to match the tempo of the person you are calling.